My recent birthday forced me to think hard about the same .....whats a big deal in celebrating b'day...i felt happy hearing the words 'happy bday' or wish u many many happy returns of the day.What am i doing exactly...celebrating a day coz god gave me chance to live life till now ..or i successfully completed so many years in this world...or i m celebrating coz i m enetring so called new year of my life which actually being the same as previous one's..!!!
What so ever the thought camed in mind i dont know whay still i expect my nearest and dearest one's to wish me on the day...i became happy if they call me up and wish and feel somewhat down when they didnt call me up... a fear make home in my mind r they forgotten me...are threads of my relational bondings becoming weak???i know it was nothing like that forgotting someones b'day dosent mean u forgot that person...but this bloody mind!!cant stop thinking..positively or negatively.
after all that loud discussion in my mind i had reached to conclusion....i had got this life which we call human life...its precious...and its really fortunate to be able to spend days or years with your loved ones ur parents,wife,bro or sis....and by all mean it make sence to celibrate a little day which comes in a year and u can say yes its my day....we can make it celibrate in diffenrent waay...i mean by deciding some resolution in mind....by helping poors ,needy persons on day........as nobody had stopped us from doing so in rest of days but after all this is the way we can make our b'day a special day for sure urself and for some poor peoples....
one thing to be mentioned here that this was my first b'dat after marriege and so the special one and the movie named duvidaniya made it special....the name is so strange which means goodbye in russian language!!!!! . vinay pathak potryaed a lifetime role which had made impact on me too...making 10 things to do list might be funny 4 some peoples or foolish thing one can do...but writing down some serious needs personal as well social and completing them by the time is worth giving shot...afterall how many of us do the predecided thing in stipulated time....i guess very rare...we keep on osponing the things whcih r less important to us..but by this way we really can make difference to ourselves....and add a self satisfaction to some extent...
and above all we all deserve to celibrate our birth day in this kali yug where there is no gaurentiee of anybodys life...so cheers folks...enjoy every moment of life ...fully..as somebody said....god knows...what happened next !!!!till then enjoy this once in a lifetime life.......or celibrate 60 or 70 days which cames once in a year as ur bday:)
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Thursday, July 10, 2008
College days…I want them back…now….
Sweet memories never dies …that’s true ….by all means …reason behind is after years later today when I remember my degree college days I found them irreplaceable in my life. we never know what will happen with us tomorrow but certainly something happens that will remain forever as sweet memory with us.
Everybody has his sweet memories associated with his or her college as do I…..they are not comparable to anybody and not same also….
I remember my efforts when I got admission for my degree course after trying for 4 consecutive years. This was part time degree college and half the students are well matured, experienced in life ,quite aged…all was new for me .everybody was in his core, not really ready to come out easily or had groups .
Later on as college moves ahead ,study moves ahead all of us come closer…it was not be in the core anymore. all class is a unit by now helping each other ….even though it was part time college helding in evening guys didn’t miss any chance ,opportunity to enjoy. Enjoy college days adding a fun part to it whenever, wherever possible
The reason behind strongly reminding all this is the annual programme vcd got in my CD drawer .All those days, moments came on surface of mind as just they happened yesterday…I start laughing…dancing seeing all my group danced in that cd…u will not believe me but its refreshing…its almost midnight now and I feel like calling all my friend at this time….i stopped myself …I don’t want to disturb other sleep in mid-nightJ
I remember all d efforts taken by my annual committee group ,my class mates for successfully arranging the annual function…everybody work round d clock weather it may chess final held at midnight or cricket conflict or space problem faced during carrom matches or cultural programme arrangement…..i remember spending all my day at press for printing college magazines with my close friends and finally when we were free it was almost 1.00 am no food available …that was thrilling….roaming on lonely roads of dadar for searching of biscuit packet at 1.00 am was quite interesting.. yah..it is …
Last days study is mantra 4 sure success he he heeee ….as our group believe this (except subhash and some other guys)we are the guys bitten b y study bug before 1 or 2 weeks of exam….i remember I even didn’t remember syllabus but able to answer any question on day before exam…it was group effort….we used to ask our problems to some of out topper friends. I remember the bet I had taken on one of our friend weather he is sleeping or not in night(or studying) and winning of 50 bucks when found him sleeping early even prior to exam date .. that time was simply superb….study never being boring with all my close friends along with me .
I didn’t had own bike until I was in third year but bought it later on and fulfilled my dream of driving my own bike in college campus…taking a triple seat in college campus ,chatting at gupta tea stall ,seating on katta oh god I just wanna be there ..now……..hmmmm.. gone are those days prashant….
That campus ,those friends,those bunks,picnics,submissions,lectures(specially of some of boreing sirs),those fights, teasing, enjoying ….college building,teachers,staff in lab,library ,xerox machine(which used to be always shuted),electrical and electronics lab..that road which goes to college even that shortcut that reaches to college ,that panipuriwala on road ,my harbour train platform,delayed trains ,adjusted shift duties for attending lectures,parties done with friend ,notes Xeroxed prior to exam, frinds who emptied there pockets in college canteen and hotels ……..its an endless list…
It’s a feeling like ya I never left my college ..i am there only by my heart ever after completing my education…sad thing is that college administration decided to shut the college(part time course)and ours was last batch who enjoyed full fellow years support which can never be happened now onward….its sad that this was decided by college …might because of shere profit related issues..huuh…cant help it out anymore….
Still I remember the repo with my teachers and fellow classmates…..now some are out of contact and some are out of touch despite in each others cells contact list and mail contact list…cold transactions of emails is going on …everybody busy with his or her life….but I’m sure they must had those sweet memories like I had......and for sure at least I believe sweet memories never dies …they came up on surface when u need them and refresh your mind whenever you need it….thats the magic of sweet memories
Everybody has his sweet memories associated with his or her college as do I…..they are not comparable to anybody and not same also….
I remember my efforts when I got admission for my degree course after trying for 4 consecutive years. This was part time degree college and half the students are well matured, experienced in life ,quite aged…all was new for me .everybody was in his core, not really ready to come out easily or had groups .
Later on as college moves ahead ,study moves ahead all of us come closer…it was not be in the core anymore. all class is a unit by now helping each other ….even though it was part time college helding in evening guys didn’t miss any chance ,opportunity to enjoy. Enjoy college days adding a fun part to it whenever, wherever possible
The reason behind strongly reminding all this is the annual programme vcd got in my CD drawer .All those days, moments came on surface of mind as just they happened yesterday…I start laughing…dancing seeing all my group danced in that cd…u will not believe me but its refreshing…its almost midnight now and I feel like calling all my friend at this time….i stopped myself …I don’t want to disturb other sleep in mid-nightJ
I remember all d efforts taken by my annual committee group ,my class mates for successfully arranging the annual function…everybody work round d clock weather it may chess final held at midnight or cricket conflict or space problem faced during carrom matches or cultural programme arrangement…..i remember spending all my day at press for printing college magazines with my close friends and finally when we were free it was almost 1.00 am no food available …that was thrilling….roaming on lonely roads of dadar for searching of biscuit packet at 1.00 am was quite interesting.. yah..it is …
Last days study is mantra 4 sure success he he heeee ….as our group believe this (except subhash and some other guys)we are the guys bitten b y study bug before 1 or 2 weeks of exam….i remember I even didn’t remember syllabus but able to answer any question on day before exam…it was group effort….we used to ask our problems to some of out topper friends. I remember the bet I had taken on one of our friend weather he is sleeping or not in night(or studying) and winning of 50 bucks when found him sleeping early even prior to exam date .. that time was simply superb….study never being boring with all my close friends along with me .
I didn’t had own bike until I was in third year but bought it later on and fulfilled my dream of driving my own bike in college campus…taking a triple seat in college campus ,chatting at gupta tea stall ,seating on katta oh god I just wanna be there ..now……..hmmmm.. gone are those days prashant….
That campus ,those friends,those bunks,picnics,submissions,lectures(specially of some of boreing sirs),those fights, teasing, enjoying ….college building,teachers,staff in lab,library ,xerox machine(which used to be always shuted),electrical and electronics lab..that road which goes to college even that shortcut that reaches to college ,that panipuriwala on road ,my harbour train platform,delayed trains ,adjusted shift duties for attending lectures,parties done with friend ,notes Xeroxed prior to exam, frinds who emptied there pockets in college canteen and hotels ……..its an endless list…
It’s a feeling like ya I never left my college ..i am there only by my heart ever after completing my education…sad thing is that college administration decided to shut the college(part time course)and ours was last batch who enjoyed full fellow years support which can never be happened now onward….its sad that this was decided by college …might because of shere profit related issues..huuh…cant help it out anymore….
Still I remember the repo with my teachers and fellow classmates…..now some are out of contact and some are out of touch despite in each others cells contact list and mail contact list…cold transactions of emails is going on …everybody busy with his or her life….but I’m sure they must had those sweet memories like I had......and for sure at least I believe sweet memories never dies …they came up on surface when u need them and refresh your mind whenever you need it….thats the magic of sweet memories
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