My recent birthday forced me to think hard about the same .....whats a big deal in celebrating b'day...i felt happy hearing the words 'happy bday' or wish u many many happy returns of the day.What am i doing exactly...celebrating a day coz god gave me chance to live life till now ..or i successfully completed so many years in this world...or i m celebrating coz i m enetring so called new year of my life which actually being the same as previous one's..!!!
What so ever the thought camed in mind i dont know whay still i expect my nearest and dearest one's to wish me on the day...i became happy if they call me up and wish and feel somewhat down when they didnt call me up... a fear make home in my mind r they forgotten me...are threads of my relational bondings becoming weak???i know it was nothing like that forgotting someones b'day dosent mean u forgot that person...but this bloody mind!!cant stop thinking..positively or negatively.
after all that loud discussion in my mind i had reached to conclusion....i had got this life which we call human life...its precious...and its really fortunate to be able to spend days or years with your loved ones ur parents,wife,bro or sis....and by all mean it make sence to celibrate a little day which comes in a year and u can say yes its my day....we can make it celibrate in diffenrent waay...i mean by deciding some resolution in mind....by helping poors ,needy persons on day........as nobody had stopped us from doing so in rest of days but after all this is the way we can make our b'day a special day for sure urself and for some poor peoples....
one thing to be mentioned here that this was my first b'dat after marriege and so the special one and the movie named duvidaniya made it special....the name is so strange which means goodbye in russian language!!!!! . vinay pathak potryaed a lifetime role which had made impact on me too...making 10 things to do list might be funny 4 some peoples or foolish thing one can do...but writing down some serious needs personal as well social and completing them by the time is worth giving shot...afterall how many of us do the predecided thing in stipulated time....i guess very rare...we keep on osponing the things whcih r less important to us..but by this way we really can make difference to ourselves....and add a self satisfaction to some extent...
and above all we all deserve to celibrate our birth day in this kali yug where there is no gaurentiee of anybodys life...so cheers folks...enjoy every moment of life ...fully..as somebody said....god knows...what happened next !!!!till then enjoy this once in a lifetime life.......or celibrate 60 or 70 days which cames once in a year as ur bday:)
